Recently reported by tvnz.co.nz/national-news, a grieving family turn to psychic for help. The New Zealand family torn apart by the death of their daughter has turned to medium Kelvin Cruickshank for help.

On December 4 last year, 20-year-old Samantha Henderson was killed after her defacto partner Justin Goldstone pointed a loaded, sawn-off shotgun at her face as he posed for photographs.

Twenty-one-year-old Goldstone was sentenced to three years and four months in prison for her manslaughter.

Goldstone has remained tight lipped on the events of that fateful night and so the family turned to Cruickshank in order to gain some closure. They are grappling with the fact Samantha could die at the hands of her partner and say some of the facts do not add up.

“All along I’ve struggled with how someone could be that stupid to have a loaded gun and point it at someone then physically pull the trigger,” says Samantha’s father, Dave.

They picked Cruickshank to help, as Samantha’s mother, Rachel, says out of the psychics they have seen “he was the one that was always so bang on”.

When Cruickshank made contact with Samantha’s spirit she sent a happy birthday message through Cruickshank to her mum. But it was her use of a nickname no-one outside of their family knows that turned Dave from a sceptic into a believer.

She bought the name “Pixie” in, which Rachel says is a name Samantha and Dave used to call her because of her ears.

“There was only Sam and Dave that knew that, so there was no way that he could have known that,” Rachel says.

This gave them confidence to believe the other information Cruickshank gave them about the day Samantha died.

Cruickshank said he got the feeling through Samantha’s spirit that Goldstone was on drugs at the time.

“He’s on something, there’s got to be some sort of reference to him being stoned or wasted or whatever and he snaps just like an owner of a dog to an animal. I can tell you he was high, high as a kite,” Cruickshank said.

Goldstone refused a toxicology test.

Dave said the reference to drugs made sense to him and actually gave him a little bit of peace of mind.

Cruickshank also said Samantha told him “with intent”.

However, there was never any evidence of intent, which is why Goldstone was charged with manslaughter, not murder.

Cruickshank said Samantha let him know she did not suffer, which Rachel said is the best she could hope for.

Samantha also expressed that she wants her daughter Hope to be with her parents.

As for those who say the family are silly for believing Cruickshank, Rachel says she does not care.

“I didn’t do this for everybody else or for anyone else to have an opinion.

“I did this for me and for Dave and for our kids, just to give us a sense of peace,” says Rachel.

The medium Kelvin Cruickshank was born in a small town on New Zealand’s North Island, and claims that from an early age he was aware of his psychic abilities because he could see people that other children could not. When he reached adulthood the visitors became harder to ignore and Kelvin realized that these visitors had messages which were meant to be delivered to others.

By Guest Contributor

A lot of people are quite pessimistic about long distance relationships, however, there really are a lot of ways for one to be able to make this kind of relationship work as long as you put your mind to it. How? Well here are some great long distance relationship tips as well as advice on how to make online dating work for you.

For long distance relationships it does not really matter how long you have been dating your boyfriend or girlfriend who is currently living far away, the point here is how committed are the two of you in making your long distance relationship work. There are usually two kinds of scenarios when it comes to this kind of relationship.

First, the two of you have met, fallen in love and yet in spite of living in far away places, decided to have a relationship. This kind of long distance relationship maybe a bit easier to work with since the two of you are used to the long distance setup and you decided to continue on dating in spite of it.

Communicate Regularly
This already shows your commitment not just to each other but to your relationship as well. Given that in these modern times there are so many ways for the two of you to be able to communicate – through the chatting, texting, phone calls, e-mails, snail mail etc. there is absolutely no way for the two of you not to remain close.

Keep Things Interesting
Keep your relationship fresh by surprising each other every now and then, maybe send your girlfriend a special gift for Valentine’s Day or surprise your boyfriend with a naughty text one night. This will keep the two of you longing for the day that you will be able to see each other again.

Be Mature
As for the second kind of long distance relationship, this is when one of you suddenly has to move away, say for work. This can prove to be a big challenge especially if the two of you are so used to being with each other 24/7. However, a lot of relationships are able to overcome this kind of relationship hurdle by learning to be more mature about the situation.

Sure the two of you are not able to go on that many dates anymore but so what? As long as the two of you make the time to always be there for each other in spite of the distance, and the two of you won’t let temptations ruin your relationship then you will be safe.

Become Exclusive With Your Online Partner
For online dating: the internet certainly does come handy for a lot of things – including finding someone to date. And if you are lucky to have found someone that you are really interested in and that you feel a genuine connection to then try to take your online dating relationship to a higher level by keeping things exclusive.

Now that you have decided to make that commitment, do find the means to be able to see each other first so that your relationship won’t be totally limited to the internet. Once the of you feel that you do have a rapport even without the internet as your safety blanket then you can start dating for real and establish a healthier relationship.

Meet In Person Regularly
If the two of you live far away from each other then just schedule meet ups every few months but make sure to keep your communication lines always open and be honest with each other to keep your relationship solid.

Consider Psychic Insight
You may be wondering, will this last? Is he right for me? To gain valuable insight into your long distance relationship and its chances for future success, consider a Phone Psychic Reading with an intuitive counselor or ‘Love Psychic” Reader, who will try to help stop you from making mistakes, and give you insight into the future of this long distance relationship.

Don’t Kiss Them Good-bye

“Death is a funny thing. It brings out the best and worst in people. It casts light on the truth and makes life blindingly clear.” Her visions have helped solve crimes; her instincts have helped find missing people; she can predict future events and sense your thoughts. These are some of the extraordinary gifts that define the remarkable Allison DuBois, the real-life medium, wife, and mother whose life is the inspiration for the hit NBC television series Medium.

When she was six years old, Allison’s deceased great-grandfather came to her with a message for her mother: “I am okay, I am still with you. Tell your mom there’s no more pain.” Allison shared his comforting words with her mother and thus began a lifetime of creating connections between loved ones and those they have lost. The purpose of her gifts became clearer when Allison worked as an intern in the homicide bureau of the district attorney’s office and found that she visualized the crime as she handled the evidence. Allison now works as a profiler on criminal investigations.

In this stunning book, Allison shares fascinating stories of her encounters with people who have passed and her adventures as a profiler for various law enforcement organizations. With wit and compassion, Allison shows us what it is like to live with these special gifts and talents and also tells about her struggle to live a normal life as a devoted wife and mother. She shows how learning to accept her own gifts has helped her accept the unique gifts of others and how her compelling desire to relieve the pain of others has helped define her own life, a life committed to the search for ultimate truth.

If you have ever questioned whether there is an afterlife, this book will help you see that there is a living energy beyond death.

If you are interested in purchasing any Allison DuBois books you can find them all here: http://www.amazon.com/

Secrets of the Monarch: What the Dead Can Teach Us About Living a Better Life

In SECRETS OF THE MONARCH, Allison explains that if you want to understand life, you must understand death. She shows readers how communicating with the dead has taught her important lessons about life and how people can apply these principles to their own lives.

Allison stresses that every person’s life is part of a bigger story, stretching past family and friends to neighbors, community members and society as a whole. By making the most of your life now, she says you can positively affect that story. After all, if you already know the story will end, why not make the content a true masterpiece?

If you are interested in purchasing any Allison DuBois books you can find them all here: http://www.amazon.com/

We Are Their Heaven: Why the Dead Never Leave Us

With the success of the television series Medium and her first book, Don’t Kiss Them Good-bye, millions of people have embraced Allison, her story, and her remarkable gift. The idea for We Are Their Heaven was born out of the pieces of communication that Allison received from the spirits who touched her over her years as a medium. In this book, she helps people to understand that we are so special to those who have died that they choose to remain with us, not because they’re bound but because we are their happiness, we are their heaven.

Now Allison brings readers into her psychic experiences. As we walk the continuum of life and death with her and meet the people whose lives she has touched, we feel the pain of loss and are at once saddened and then renewed by her experiences and the stories of loss and connection. Each chapter focuses on a different type of loss — parents, children, friends, and spouses who have lost loved ones through accidents, murder, suicide, and illness.

Throughout the book, people who have had readings with Allison share their experiences and the significance of their readings. They take us into their confidence and share the unique details, identifying the calling cards of the dead, the initial private piece of information that convinced them that they were communicating directly with their loved ones. Allison, in turn, takes us through the same readings and describes exactly what was delivered and how it was conveyed. She convinces us that an essential part of communicating with the deceased is learning how to read both their signs (the message) and their signature (the unique information).

Through Allison’s eyes, we see that the dead are trying to reach their living loved ones all the time. She explores timing, coincidence, auditory and sensory communications, dreams, visions, incident manipulation, and streaming events to affirm their attempts. Allison presents the riveting details of her communications — what she hears, sees, and feels.

If you are interested in purchasing any Allison DuBois books you can find them all here: http://www.amazon.com/

By Guest Contributor

We use our eyes more than we do any of our other physical senses. We usually feel that our active consciousness is more connected with visual sight than with anything else. The sight-centers in the brain are used more than any of the others, and this fact is proven by our own dreams, in which we “see” figures, but very seldom hear any spoken words. Again our memory consists mostly of visual symbols and stimuli. When we think of a person, we call up their image before our minds eye, this being a “memory image.” Now, as these parts of the mind and brain are so active, it is only an extension of this natural faculty of inducing memory-images, which enables us to see objects and figures in our practice of clairvoyance.

We only have to encourage this mental ability a little more than usual to carry it beyond the limitations of the physical senses; whereas, with the other senses, much less used, we might have to do a great deal more of this cultivation or forcing-process, in order to develop the corresponding spiritual abilities. Clairvoyance and similar faculties usually depend on the partial liberation or freeing of the spirit from the body, and the stimulation of the corresponding psychic sense-organs into a higher degree of activity, to permit their use. The following are a few exercises which will be helpful in developing this faculty of clairvoyance.

PSYCHIC DEVELOPMENT EXERCISES

Exercise 1: Sit in a comfortable chair in a semi-darkened room. Mentally construct (i.e., visualize) before you a tube, open at both ends. One end of this tube fits over your eyes, and the other end extends indefinitely out into space. Imagine that this tube is hollow and that you can see through it perfectly. Turn this tube in the direction of the house of a friend of yours; mentally go into a room and see if you can discover in it anyone present,and if so, who they are and what they look like. Note what you see carefully… including clothing or colors, or anything that stands out for you. You will be able to verify the next day how far your vision is correct. And remember to be playfull with this exercise, the more playful and open minded you are, the less stress will interfere with your progress.

Exercise 2: Next, Construct the tube as before. At the other end of this tube, which you can imagine to be about one hundred yards long, you must endeavour to see clairvoyantly the face of a friend. Try to distinguish the features of their face, making them clearer and clearer. When you have done this, gradually pull it toward you by an effort of will, until it is only about two or three feet from you. It should then be perfectly clear and every feature distinguishable. When you have succeeded in visualizing this face so clearly that you see it as distinctly as you would as if that individual stood before you in life, your progress as a clairvoyant will have made great advances and you may then begin experiments in influencing this person at a distance, or sending messages back and forth while seeing his face before you, as explained. Use your power of WILL – so that he should do a certain thing, to think of you at a certain time or see your face float before him as he is busy with his daily activities. If you practice this persistently, you will ultimately achieve success, being able to communicate and influence persons without doubt.

By Guest Contributor

Psychics have been trusted by some of the world’s most influential people. Political leaders throughout history have had psychics on call who were charged with helping them make major decisions.

Police agencies have used psychics many times to help solve crimes. Even the CIA is rumored to have conducted experiments on psychics in order to figure out how to use their abilities to the government’s advantage.

These powerful people and respectable government agencies have trusted psychics to advise them on really big matters. They know that a psychic reading can be a profoundly effective way to gain insight into a difficult situation.

You can take advantage of psychic readings to improve your position, too. Even if the fate of the entire free world doesn’t rest on your shoulders, you can find some meaningful and useful answers through a psychic reading.

When is the best time to seek a psychic reading? Most people only become aware of the fact that they need advice when a significant event is looming. When your relationship is in trouble, your health is poor, or your job future looks uncertain, you’re more likely to realize that you could use an outside opinion on things. It’s at times like these that most people decide to seek the advice of a psychic to help guide them through the turbulence.

If you only speak with your psychic advisor when you are experiencing a crisis or contemplating a change, that’s perfectly fine. Your psychic advisor can provide you with invaluable information that can help you make decisions that are right for you. If you make it a habit to call even when there is no big event or decision looming in the immediate future maybe two or three times a year you will get insightful, timely advice for your everyday issues and problems. You can keep your life on track and possibly avoid those big issues altogether.

Many people start out by taking advantage of free psychic readings. These are often offered by psychics to let you become familiar with what they are about and what they can do for you. After your first reading, you’ll be amazed at how much clearer things look. Your relationships, career, and financial situation and any other topic you’re concerned about can all be brought into perspective by a chat with a caring psychic advisor.

When you have a fresh, outside perspective on your life and the events taking place in it, you’ll be able to make careful, measured decisions that positively impact your future. Your psychic advisor can help you lay out a clear path for the future that will get you closer to your goals and through, periodic phone calls, can help you stay on that track.

Can you trust psychics to give you helpful and accurate advice? Psychic advisors are men and women who have shown mental abilities that some people would call “supernatural.” A lot of people believe that these talents are common to all humans, but most of us do not have the ability to tap into them. Your psychic advisor is a person who can access these mental talents in order to help you make the best choices for your future.

Psychic advisors can use a variety of methods to help guide you. Some prefer to use Tarot readings, which can provide a meaningful assessment of your current position while helping to lay out a clear path for the future. Other psychics prefer to use astrology, which is the study of the positions of stars as they relate to your personality and the way your life events unfold. Numerology readings might also be used on their own or along with astrology to help you and your psychic advisor identify patterns and make wise decisions.

Regardless of the methods preferred by your psychic advisor, you will be amazed at the accuracy and helpfulness of the readings. Even if you decide to have only one reading, you will almost certainly find that the guidance your psychic advisor gives you will change your life for the better.

The Psychic Twins Terry and Linda Jamison TV appearance on A&E.

The twins are known worldwide for there amazing Psychic Reading abilities. From their website:

The Psychic Twins make many truly amazing predictions about the world and celebrities on national TV and radio or in national magazines. This mind blowing collection of their well documented predictions from the years 1998 to present have one thing in common. All of them happened.

By Guest Contributor

When eager to manifest new relationships (and this is always necessary at some point in our lives) we must be ready to accept change and respect newness. Whether in our personal world or our business world, we often feel the need to develop new relationships.

Attract new relationships
Instead of trying to find new people, develop the capacity to attract them. Having said that, necessary actions must be taken in order to open you to being in the right place at the right time. This could mean attending networking events or social and organizational events in your geographical area. It may mean that you simply pay attention to those people you chance to meet in your day-to-day affairs.

Open your heart center
By continually remembering to keep your heart center activated, you will begin to receive signs from those you are attracting. Your heart center has ‘psychic receptor sites’ so that you will know when you are meeting like-minded persons. This is not something new. You have always had the ability to receive the feeling of warmth, belongingness and satisfaction when you are with certain people. Follow through with your feelings and you will begin manifesting new relationships. Your body gives clues: you may feel comfortable, exhilarated, inspired, feelings of oneness as well as other feelings that have been activated between you and your potential new relationship.

Some relationships will be enduring and others will be for just a short time. When you pay close attention, even the new short-lived relationships will often bring you something you need in the way of information, inspiration, to fulfill karmic experiences or to have other types of experiences that your soul wants you to have.

Be the person you want to attract
In order to attract attractive people, you must be attractive. To attract powerful people, you must be powerful. To attract committed people, you must be committed. What you are becoming, you will attract, so it makes good sense to involve yourself in some personal development activities. Personal development activities can include many things but highly recommended is the ability and discipline to pray and/or meditate on a regular basis. Getting to know your soul – the highest aspect of yourself – brings to the fore all of your good and divine qualities. These qualities are the stuff that attracts new relationships with people who have good and divine qualities. When two persons meet and both have good and divine qualities, magic can happen – on a personal level, a business level or community level, for the greatest good of all.

What is your inner posture?
On a practical level, when meeting someone new, be aware of your inner posture as well as your outer posture. Your voice will reveal to the other person your level of respect, your interest in them by the way you listen to them and your level of oneness and acceptance of them just as they are today.

When in a networking situation and connecting with a person, focus on how you can help them. Make sure you are listening intently to them when you are face to face. Learn how to ask good questions. Before departing, get their e-mail address or other contact information. Electronic communication is less invasive and quicker than a phone call; however, phone calls are appropriate under many circumstances. Send them additional contacts, a website, a tip, a telephone number or anything that you connected with initially. Cast away any fears of actually connecting with that person again – the sooner the better.

Experiment. Write down on paper the qualities that you want in your new relationship – one relationship at a time. Look at that paper daily and visualize your new relationship walking toward you while you are feeling the feelings you want to feel in that relationship. Continue doing this daily until someone happens to show up in your life. At that time, you know you are manifesting new relationships – all by your own design and powers of attracting that which you seek.

By Guest Contributor

Have you ever been in a position where you wanted to help someone out so bad that you were frustrated because everything you have tried doesn’t work? Or the person doesn’t seem to hear what you’re saying? Often times we feel that there is something more that we either should have done, could be doing or didn’t do. We can find ourselves going around in circles in our thoughts and then punishing ourselves because we couldn’t come up with an answer.

I have to tell you that in my experience, the very fact that you care, you can pretty much trust that you have done all that you could. If you aren’t able to effect a change, please consider that maybe you weren’t meant to in this case. Or the person isn’t allowing you to help them. We all know someone that we have tried to help who can’t seem to hear what we are saying. Or they can’t see what’s right in front of them. Some people…don’t even want help.

I’ve found that we find comfort in our suffering. It’s safe and there are no surprises. I think that we have all felt that at one time or another. So what are the qualities of a good friend, wife, husband, leader or whatever role you are playing in someone’s life? Be and example. Be an inspiration. It’s not tough to do really. You just have to be, you. Without the ego getting involved. I believe that we are like a lighthouse in a way. We shine our lights out to sea and whoever is supposed to be drawn to that will come into our path. Some choose not to see it. Others cringe at how bright your light is. While others still, rush to suck up every bit of your power. But if you notice, Lighthouses don’t dim they’re lights because someone can’t handle it…or try to shine brighter because a certain boat isn’t paying attention.
It just shines. No matter what the weather is on the outside.

So really, all you have to do is shine without strain, without effort and without thinking about it too much wondering if there is something more you should be doing.
Again, the very fact that you have compassion towards a person and care about them enough to want to do something to help them sometimes is enough. They will pick up on that energy and if there is something more to be done then it will present itself.

That’s tough to do though because we want to be in control. We want to make sure that we are doing everything. We even want to control another’s experience. Isn’t that right? Check to see inside of you what you are really feeling when you are trying to help someone else out.

Most of us want three things:

• We Want Security
• We Want Approval and
• We want Control

Sometimes it’s just one of these, sometimes it’s a mixture of all three. If you are not happy with a situation the way that it is, don’t you want it to be different? Do you want to change the outcome? That is what wanting control feels like. That is an article for another day. Right now let’s focus again on being the best inspiration that you can be. When you are just being the soul light that you are you are setting an example. Whether you are aware of it or not, the other person will notice. You may not see that difference now, but trust me, you will plant a seed inside of that person and when they are meant to, they will come out of the fog that has been keeping them from seeing the truth.

In my opinion 5 qualities of a good leader are:

1. Sets an example and lives what he/she teaches
2. Gives permission to other people to just be themselves
3. Allows others to follow their path without tainting their experience
4. Sends their love and light without getting the ego involved
5. Encourages, not demands a shift in another’s perception

I know that this may not be the immediately answer that you were looking for but what makes an inspiring leader? One who lives what they are teaching; especially in business. Do you want someone as a boss who practices “do what I say and not what I do?” Be a light. Be an example. And through this way you will become everything that everyone needs from you. They will follow their path and you will follow yours.