Recently reported by tvnz.co.nz/national-news, a grieving family turn to psychic for help. The New Zealand family torn apart by the death of their daughter has turned to medium Kelvin Cruickshank for help.

On December 4 last year, 20-year-old Samantha Henderson was killed after her defacto partner Justin Goldstone pointed a loaded, sawn-off shotgun at her face as he posed for photographs.

Twenty-one-year-old Goldstone was sentenced to three years and four months in prison for her manslaughter.

Goldstone has remained tight lipped on the events of that fateful night and so the family turned to Cruickshank in order to gain some closure. They are grappling with the fact Samantha could die at the hands of her partner and say some of the facts do not add up.

“All along I’ve struggled with how someone could be that stupid to have a loaded gun and point it at someone then physically pull the trigger,” says Samantha’s father, Dave.

They picked Cruickshank to help, as Samantha’s mother, Rachel, says out of the psychics they have seen “he was the one that was always so bang on”.

When Cruickshank made contact with Samantha’s spirit she sent a happy birthday message through Cruickshank to her mum. But it was her use of a nickname no-one outside of their family knows that turned Dave from a sceptic into a believer.

She bought the name “Pixie” in, which Rachel says is a name Samantha and Dave used to call her because of her ears.

“There was only Sam and Dave that knew that, so there was no way that he could have known that,” Rachel says.

This gave them confidence to believe the other information Cruickshank gave them about the day Samantha died.

Cruickshank said he got the feeling through Samantha’s spirit that Goldstone was on drugs at the time.

“He’s on something, there’s got to be some sort of reference to him being stoned or wasted or whatever and he snaps just like an owner of a dog to an animal. I can tell you he was high, high as a kite,” Cruickshank said.

Goldstone refused a toxicology test.

Dave said the reference to drugs made sense to him and actually gave him a little bit of peace of mind.

Cruickshank also said Samantha told him “with intent”.

However, there was never any evidence of intent, which is why Goldstone was charged with manslaughter, not murder.

Cruickshank said Samantha let him know she did not suffer, which Rachel said is the best she could hope for.

Samantha also expressed that she wants her daughter Hope to be with her parents.

As for those who say the family are silly for believing Cruickshank, Rachel says she does not care.

“I didn’t do this for everybody else or for anyone else to have an opinion.

“I did this for me and for Dave and for our kids, just to give us a sense of peace,” says Rachel.

The medium Kelvin Cruickshank was born in a small town on New Zealand’s North Island, and claims that from an early age he was aware of his psychic abilities because he could see people that other children could not. When he reached adulthood the visitors became harder to ignore and Kelvin realized that these visitors had messages which were meant to be delivered to others.

By Guest Contributor

Learning how to get back with an ex is not very hard; you can find tips and advice all over the internet. What can be hard is learning the things that you should avoid when trying to get back with an ex. The reason why learning what you want to avoid is so hard, is because most of the tips and advice that you see online are things that you should be avoiding when learning how to get back with an ex.

1. Apologize – If You Were At Fault
Getting back with an ex is more than just apologizing, it is about being sincerely apologetic about what has happened and trying to make things right. Most articles online will tell you that the first thing that you need to do is apologize to your ex. This is true, you do want to apologize, but what you want to do is avoid apologizing without meaning it. Your ex already knows everything about you, so they will know if you are being sincere or not when you apologize.

When you do apologize to your ex, something else that you want to avoid doing is making promises to your ex that you cannot keep. All too often, when you apologize to your ex you tell them that you will not do something again or that you will work harder to prevent things from building up. Making false promises needs to be avoided because your ex has heard it all before. If you make promises that you can’t keep the relationship is not going to work any better the second time than it did the first. Instead, what you want to do is talk to your ex about what they expect from you in regards to certain situations, if they cannot live with your faults the relationship will not work because every relationship is about compromise.

2. Give Them Some Space
In learning how to get back with an ex, you will hear all sorts of things about calling them and giving them space. If you want to get back with an ex you will need to talk to them at some point, but you still want to give them some space. A good rule of them to consider is to give them some space for the first few weeks following the break up, after that try contacting them to see if they are willing to talk. When you first attempt to contact them do not call them constantly or email them repeatedly. If they don’t answer, simply leave them a message and wait for them to respond back to you. Giving them too much attention makes things worse, and it makes you appear desperate.

After you have broken up you are going to be depressed and perhaps a bit melancholy. The one thing that you want to avoid is having that take over your life. Sure, it is upsetting that you went through a break up, but you still have to get on with your life. Getting on with your life you can become more confident and attractive, which can help to win them back.

3. Consider a ‘Love Psychic’
Talking to a Love Psychic on the Phone is quick and easy, allowing you valuable insight into the future of your relationship. Knowing what lies ahead allows you to make the right decisions about your relationship and Ex. You need but one hour to spend with a Phone Psychic Reader to get the relationship help that you really need. If you’re a woman and you need relationship advice, you have to make sure that you get it only from the best source – by calling only a quality Psychic Reader for help in getting back your Ex.

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Chip Coffey is a psychic medium who works with children to help them regain control of their psychic abilities. Through his work he can help a child become more in tune and less afraid of the spiritual activity around them.

To learn more about Chip Coffey read this excerpt from his promotional website about him:

Chip Coffey is an internationally acclaimed psychic, medium, spiritual counselor and paranormal investigator. He is the great-grandson of famed Native American medicine woman Minnie Sue Morrow Foster. Chip was born in Upstate New York, spent much of his childhood in South Carolina, and now resides in the suburbs of Atlanta, Georgia.

His psychic abilities manifested themselves when he was a young child. After having successful careers in counseling, the entertainment industry and travel management, he began working full-time as a psychic and medium in late 2001. Since that time, he has conducted over 8,000 readings for clients all around the world.

Chip also travels to colleges and universities throughout the United States, presenting a program of ghostly photos, videos and audio recordings captured during his many investigations.

The Atlanta Journal-Constitution calls Chip “every bit as accurate as John Edward” and InStyle says “Chip Coffey is a cross between John Edward and Dr. Phil… a psychic who doesn’t hesitate to tell it like it is.” Fate and Fortune, a European magazine, featured an article about Chip’s visit to the ruins of the World Trade Center with the widow of a man who died there on 9/11.

Chip is a featured columnist with Oracle 20/20 magazine. He volunteers with Hospice Atlanta as a member of the Spiritual Volunteer Team. A firm believer in God and His Angels, Chip believes that miracles, great and small, happen each and every day.

By Guest Contributor

The topic of psychic dependency being both compelling and dangerous is one close to my heart. This is because psychic practitioners not only can rely indirectly on your need for information but can also feed the danger if they do not separate their ego and professionalism from their own deep personal needs when delivering information to you.

I believe that many self-proclaimed psychics have discovered and learned their craft through trauma. Now this on its own is of little importance unless it becomes coupled dangerously with a psychic’s sense of self and purpose and runs out via their ego. When a person, in general, is attached to and dependent on whom they want to be presented as being (as opposed to whom they really are) and they are also inflexible to understand that in time their level of professionalism needs to grow and develop rather than be reliant on the same old tricks, this can become a fatal combination and draw in others who share their dependency.

I always remember a visit to a psychic we’ll call ‘Barry from Bankstown’ on one of my random trips back home to Sydney a few years ago. I decided to be one of the girls for the day and also get a reading, so the group sent me in first! This way they could see my reaction and decide if they wanted to go as well.

‘Barry from Bankstown’, as we now fondly call him, came out in a black jumpsuit, with high collar, big belt and little red devils on it to announce that he was booked out weeks in advance and that we were lucky to have secured an appointment so quickly.

When I went in, ‘Barry’ asked me to shuffle the tarot cards and as I was doing this I was amazed at how much paraphernalia he had in his little booth in the crystal shop where he was based. I’ve never seen an array like it – crystals, devil ornaments, third eye ornaments and other weird and wonderful talismans.

Then he asked me what my seven worst worries were that he could sort for me – I thought it an odd thing to ask as I had never seen this approach before. So I responded that I loved my life but was here because I was curious about anything that may come in from my Guides. At this point he got very annoyed as I challenged him on the need for so much negativity and, a few insults later about his belief that women are unable to be intuitive, he ultimately told me to get out as he was very busily booked and only needed people who had ‘real issues for him to work out!’

Now this may seem a bit out of the ordinary – yet in fact it is not. He was simply much more extreme than the usual, run of the mill, helpful psychics attached to their identity.

As I thought of all the talismans in ‘Barry’s’ little cupboard I could clearly see how he both preyed on and worked with people’s fears and dependency. You see, living in that area are many foreigners who believe in the power of the evil eye, will want curses and such removed and will have terrible (or so perceived) secrets that they need to discuss for clarity. ‘Barry’ simply honed in on them and marketed himself both physically and emotionally to cater to them. Thus, he fed people’s fears which generated dependency and also could dangerously influence the decisions these clients were making.

So how do we recognize dependency and the danger it can cause both from a psychic and a client perspective?

I believe that psychics do not need to see a client more than at absolute most three times a year for a full reading to cover off all the issues. An accurate and quality psychic will give undiluted information to a client and then respects the client’s decision in how to manage the situation.

Good psychics recognize dependency when a client cannot make a decision – on every topic in their life – without consultation with them. An honest psychic will know that this person needs more than psychic guidance and may need some possible counselling assistance as there are greater issues at play with them.

As a client, you will know you have dependency when you feel COMPELLED to voice all your thoughts, actions and non-actions to your psychic before you ever take action. Have you ever felt panic before your decision making because you no longer feel you can make decisions without a third party instruction?

This becomes very dangerous when psychics feel compelled to be always sprouting their intuition and words to all who come in contact with them – in social situations, privately and at work. You will know it is dangerous as a client when you no longer feel you have any CAPACITY to action your decisions.

Beware if your psychic has your number on speed dial and is always offering advice and if you have their number on your speed dial and are always asking.

Some tips to avoiding psychic dependency include:

Tip 1. Go in to your psychic with specific areas you want covered and ask the questions – do not give the background to the question. This way they cannot assume what is happening and build from it.

Tip 2. Go to your reading with the expectation that each and every psychic reads very differently and no way is wrong as such – just different. However, if you feel that someone is overwhelmingly negative – work with your instincts on that.

Tip 3. Go to your reading having asked about how the psychic reads, when they first learned to read, what they love about their work and what is the benefit is of seeing this particular type of reader over any other. If the psychic replies anything along the genre of ‘I love to help people and it is my mission in life to do so’ – RUN. It is not their mission. A psychic’s mission is to simply be a conduit for Spirit and be good and honest about it. The outcome is the clarity and help it offers people.

Finally, when you walk into a psychic, reader, medium, clairvoyant or whatever else you wish to title them, and they know so much about you because you are there all the time, then stop. Why? I believe that once a psychic gets to know you very well their capacity to tune in becomes redundant to some degree. And the question of a psychic’s practical knowledge dictating the information given to you versus their talent dictating the information needs to be asked.

So if you do feel dependent on a psychic how do you know when your guidance from them has run its course? The answer is simple. A good psychic will let you know when you no longer need to present to them as you now must go and live the information and guidance given to you. The other types do not.

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Celebrity Sex Psychic Belinda Bentley talks sex with Dave Navarro on his new show. Belinda is renowned as a Psychic to the stars, with a focus mostly on sex and love related issues; she claims to be the only “Sex Psychic”.

From her website, they write:

Belinda Bentley is now a Celebrity Psychic being featured in all aspects of media worldwide, including Star Magazine, Diva Magazine, Darkness Radio with Dave Schrader, Playboy radio,VH1, E! and her own radio show? Disturbed Paranormal? with co – host, Hale S. Mednik. Although most celebrity clientele is kept confidential, Belinda has worked with Dave Navarro on Spread TV and has been named his “In House Psychic.” She has also been linked to other Hollywood celebrities!

While career setbacks are often unavoidable, they are not insurmountable or irreparable: with a good mix of planning, networking and optimism, you can find yourself a new position or find a way to circumvent obstacles to growth in your current role.

In order to regain your momentum (and earning potential), you will need to think strategically and assess your situation objectively. Below, we outline some things you should think about if you are currently facing employment problems, or just want to be prepared.

TIP 1: UNDERSTAND YOUR SKILLS
The first crucial step when planning a career change or pursuing new employment is to take stock of what you know and what weaknesses you have. For example, if you are a great analyst but a poor communicator, then look for a role where you can utilize your analytical skills but won’t have to give many presentations. At the same time, if you know your presentation and writing skills need work, start looking for opportunities to speak more. Informal meet-ups of peers and professional organization events are both great ways to build your speaking skills (and network).

We all have areas that we excel in and those that, despite training and experience, we still struggle with. Understanding both sides of your skill set lets you focus your efforts on roles where you will achieve the best results.

TIP 2: GET TALKING
Perhaps the most important and most poorly utilized asset any professional has is their network. When you are looking for a change or need new employment, it’s the people you know that will be your best source of insight and leads. If you think about your relationships – friends, family, and colleagues – and make the effort to touch base with them, you will be amazed how many new opportunities can appear. Of course, this assumes that you have remained in contact and have been a resource to them in the past (whether personal or professional).

Many times, our pride stops us from asking for an introduction or a recommendation, but the truth is that the people around you want to help you. Not only will it make them feel good to lend a hand, but its also good business: while you may be in need now; who can say when the positions may be reversed? By helping you out now, they strengthen their own network and create new possibilities for their own advancement. It’s a win-win situation.

TIP 3: BE AWARE
Even the most conservative industries experience change: maybe it’s a tool that streamlines processes and makes people redundant, or, a new initiative that brings specialized-skills into demand. Either way, there will be winners and losers from the changes.

The trick to being a winner is knowing what’s coming. Of course, you are not psychic and often company decisions are opaque; but you should always be looking for information about your industry, company, and clients:

1. Perhaps you’ve noticed that more and more customer service is being shipped offshore?
2. Perhaps a previously non-critical business division is suddenly a major revenue generator?
3. Perhaps one of your peers has been recruited by another firm due to skills and experience you also possess?
4. Perhaps a client is looking for additional services that your company provides, but no one has put together a clean proposal to capture the additional business?
These are just some of the scenarios that occur in every industry. If you are paying attention, you may be able to capitalize on any of them.
1. If off-shoring is occurring, look for the niches that are less transferable or start preparing for a job search.
2. If a division is getting mentioned more, see if you can work on a joint project that will gain you visibility or see if they could use your skill set.
3. If you have transferable skills and experience, then why not look at other industries. Getting outside your comfort zone can offer a huge benefit – especially, if your skills are in short supply in a younger industry (or an older one experiencing a shift).
4. Don’t assume someone else will make the pitch. Maybe you aren’t the one to close the deal, but if you put the idea in front of the client you can gain a new contact and pickup some recognition for ‘going beyond the call of duty’. Taking initiative is crucial to your success.

Your job might depend on a company, but your career is your responsibility. Hopefully, you will take some of the ideas discussed above and incorporate them into your career strategy. If you are in a dead-end job, then now is the time to take stock and find a way out. If you are currently looking for a job, then make sure you are searching efficiently and looking at the right opportunities.

Either way, you will need to keep your eyes on your skills, your voice in conversations, and your ear to the ground. Good luck.

By Guest Contributor

The Aura may be defined as ‘a subtle invisible essence or fluid said to emanate from human and animal bodies, and even from things; a psychic electro-vital, electro-mental effluvium, partaking of both mind and body, hence the atmosphere surrounding a person.’ The Aura is usually seen as a luminous atmosphere around all living things, including what we regard as inanimate matter.

Healing Techniques, Aura healing is also known by the name of energy healing or the spiritual healing. It is an excellent healing process which unleashes all the blocks and unwanted energy and lets the required energy flow in its own pace throughout the body and heals.

Magnetic Healing
Valentine Greatrakes, a native of Ireland, used magnetic techniques for the purpose of healing, in the eighteenth century, by what is popularly known as ‘laying on of hands’. Magnetic healing is usually done by what is known as ‘passes’ made by the hands over the body of the patient or by laying-on-of-hands or by the use of healing oils. The etheric aura is not only a receiver of forces, but also a transmitter, and the energies that flow through it may be directed to other things apart from human bodies. Animals may benefit from the forces directed upon them through the etheric aura, and along with them the veggie kingdom may be beneficial as well.

There have been many experiments made of this power of some human beings to affect for good or bad the lives of the members of vegetable kingdom, and it may well be that those people who possess the traditional green thumbs are people with the power to transmit the energies to ailing plants.

They themselves not consciously realizing their possession of this power does not matter the least. In fact it may often help, since their conscious mind is for the moment out of the way, and the sub-conscious mind has a chance to bring the etheric mechanism into action.

But not only can the etheric energies be transmitted to human beings, animals and plants, they can also be poured into and charge inanimate objects such as stones, jewels, oils and so on. These objects will then act as a kind of magnetic battery, pouring their charge of energy out as required.

When this charging or magnetizing is done by someone who understands the principles involved, the object so charged becomes not merely a battery that will discharge itself until its charge is exhausted, but will also be linked up with several universal energies, and so remain charged and potent for healing, or for any other purpose for which it is originally intended.

Procedures of Healing

1. The first and foremost step to the aura healing process is to calm down yourself with the help of deep meditation. You need to be present as a spirit in your body.
2. After that the healer frees you from all your psychic abilities and also sets free the unwanted energies from your body.
3. The healer further goes ahead and enhances your creative and in built energies through the energy centers of your body – the Chakras.
4. Finally, the healer ends by helping to understand the limits of your aura.

The Auric field is something which cannot be felt and seen by anybody and everybody. For the purpose of seeing this particular field with naked eyes, it is necessary to develop psychic abilities which can only be achieved with the help of psychic powers.

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By: Guest Contributor

Many people have the mistaken belief that some people are psychic and some people are not. Really, however, we all have some degree of psychic ability. The difference in those who we consider psychic and those we consider non psychic has much more to do with how willing to trust their intuition they are.

Many people feel that they have intuitive abilities and acknowledge this sometimes, perhaps through an incident of synchronicity, or unexplained coincidence. Using your intuition involves trusting the information you receive that way. It is, on a more comprehensive level, just knowing something and trusting it despite not knowing how you know.

Psychics may go for years will the inkling that they are a little bit psychic without knowing that they can develop that intuitive sense for the benefit of themselves and others. Those seemingly random psychic experiences are clues that we have these abilities. It is up to us to learn to trust them and learn not to block them.

My own first psychic experience happened when I was a young adolescent. I was terrified to stay home alone because of recent news about the kidnapping of a girl my age, but that summer while I was out of school, I had to stay home by myself while my parents worked.

One day I walked into the garage on my way to the mailbox, and as I shut the door behind me, I realized that I had left it locked and I was locked out of the house. It may not seem like a big deal, but I was terrified. I jiggled the doorknob, tried to turn it, but it was hopeless. I was locked out, and I would have to wait in the garage or outside until one of my parents came home.

Then, something told me to try the door again. Yeah, right, I thought. But I did it, and the door was unlocked. It could only have come from a plane other than the physical world in which we live.

The chakras of the body are energy centers that allow us to process information from the physical and spiritual world around us. The ability to feel energy, or clairsentience, belongs to the second chakra, just below the navel. Have you ever had a gut feeling that something was wrong? You were processing that information through the second chakra, and it is valuable information.

The fifth chakra is located at the base of the throat, and it is the ability to hear information. This inner dialog is how we receive and process clairaudient information. This is the sense that told me to try to open the door one more time that day.

Processing information through the seventh chakra is when you just know something. This chakra is located on top of the head. Have you, or someone close to you ever just blurted out something from nowhere that happened to be very insightful? It probably reached him or her through the seventh chakra.

The key to developing our psychic abilities is to learn to trust the knowledge that we don’t know how we acquired. It is a collection of experiences that builds over time and can’t really be forced. We all have psychic abilities to some extent, and we all have the ability to make the best use of our psychic abilities if we will practice and learn.

By: Guest Contributor

For a fair number of people who are incredibly attuned to their inner self, their next stage of “evolution” is trying to speed up their psychic development. Naturally, psychic abilities differ from one person to the other. Some people have the power of: auric sight (power to see other people’s aura,) clairaudience (clear hearing,) clairempathy (clear emotion,) clairvoyance (clear vision,) intuition (perception of information with no portals,) mental influence (a form of telepathy that can be used to sway others,) psychic healing (ability to cure ills using psychic healing,) psychokinesis (power to move objects using the mind,) psychometry (perception of information via an object,) and telepathy (mind communication.) If you think that you have one or more of these special talents psychic development is essential in honing up your powers to a certain degree. But exactly how do you do this? Here are some tips.

1. Read more, learn more, and understand more. It is never enough that you know that you have special abilities. Like everyone else, there should be new knowledge coming in so that the person achieves a well rounded insight about what he or she has. Think of this like a form of education. What you may have learned five years ago, may no longer be applicable by today. Keeping an open mind to other possibilities is also important, but this should be balanced out with keeping a critical eye out for inconsistencies as well. The learning process of most psychics revolve more on self discovery; therefore, not everything you come across with, either in literature or through other psychics may apply to you. The more you know about your special abilities, the better you can harness your strengths and overcome your weakness.

2. Meditate. The mind is the most powerful instrument that any psychic can possess. Unfortunately, the very sad truth is: many people who have these abilities never tap into their full potentials, simply because they think meditation is a useless practice. On the contrary, the art of meditation has been used by the greatest minds since time immemorial. Meditation helps clear the mental clutter that may be holding the psychic back. At the same time, this form of discipline is essential when it comes to training the person to channel his or her energy into one focal point; which in turn, accentuates the inherent power of the psychic gift. Meditate, even for as little as 15 minutes at a time each day, and your psychic development will benefit greatly.

3. Remove your fears. This is one of the biggest steps to psychic re discovery. Most people with inherent mental abilities are afraid to explore and use their powers, for one reason or the other. It is easy to say that you think you have advance mental prowess; but when it comes to actually using it for the benefit of others is an altogether different topic. In order to know just how far you can go, you need to open your third eye more, and re discover what you can and what you cannot do. You have to remember that fear is a very strong restraint to your psychic abilities. So getting rid of it can be difficult, but not at all impossible.