By Guest Contributor

Have you recently ended a relationship or are you recently divorced? Are you thinking about dating again? Many times, putting yourself back into the dating scene is a good idea. But how can you know when it is time to start a new relationship?

Here are 4 Reasons Not To Start A Relationship:

Reason 1: You are not fully over your last relationship, or still have hope of reconciliation.

If you still fantasize about getting back with your partner, then you are not truly available for another relationship. Is there really a possibility of reconciliation, or are you making up the possibility? If there really is a possibility, then it is certainly not time to date. If the relationship is really over, then you need to fully accept this before moving on to another relationship. As long as you are in denial about the relationship being over, you are not fully available for another relationship.

Reason 2: Yur partner has died, and you do not feel ready for a new relationship.

If you had a loving relationship with your deceased partner, then any time you feel ready is fine. You already know how to have a good relationship, so there is a good chance of having another good relationship when you feel ready for it.

Reason 3: You have not admitted your part in why the last relationship ended.

When a relationship goes on the rocks, it is because each partner is contributing to the problems. It is always fairly easy to see what the other person did that caused problems, but much harder to see what you did.

It may be necessary for you to have therapeutic help in understanding your end of the relationship issues. I have been working with individuals and couples for 40 years and I have seen that people tend to repeat the same patterns in relationships over and over unless they do some healing work. Even if, at the beginning, a new relationship looks different from your other relationships, there is a good possibility that it will end up the same.

Most relationships create a system with one person being a caretaker and the other being a taker. These roles can switch in different relationships and around different issues. Unless you heal your tendencies to be a caretaker or a taker, you will continue to create relationship systems that don’t work.

Underneath all relationship dysfunction are control issues. Whether you control with anger, righteousness, blame, judgment, compliance, resistance, or withdrawal of love, until you heal the fear underlying all controlling behavior, you will continue to create relationship problems.

This does not mean that these issues need to be healed before starting a new relationship, but it does mean is that you need to be in the process of healing to have a chance at a good relationship.

Reason 4: You do not feel available for a new relationship.

Most people have two bottom-line fears when it comes to relationships: the fear of rejection and the fear of engulfment, which means the fear of losing the other or the fear of losing yourself. These are deep fears that start in childhood and may continue throughout your life, making it difficult for you to be fully emotionally available in a relationship.

These fears do not just go away. Until you develop a powerful loving adult self, you may take rejection personally and not know how to handle loss. Without a strong loving inner adult, you may allow others to control you, giving yourself up to prevent rejection.

Again, these fears do not need to be healed before starting a relationship, but unless you are in the process of healing them and continue to do healing work within a relationship, there is a good chance that you will recreate another unsuccessful relationship.

A relationship is a wonderful arena for healing and growth when both people are devoted to learning to be a strong loving adult. If you are on a devoted healing and learning path, make sure that your new partner is too!

By Guest Contributor

A lot of people are quite pessimistic about long distance relationships, however, there really are a lot of ways for one to be able to make this kind of relationship work as long as you put your mind to it. How? Well here are some great long distance relationship tips as well as advice on how to make online dating work for you.

For long distance relationships it does not really matter how long you have been dating your boyfriend or girlfriend who is currently living far away, the point here is how committed are the two of you in making your long distance relationship work. There are usually two kinds of scenarios when it comes to this kind of relationship.

First, the two of you have met, fallen in love and yet in spite of living in far away places, decided to have a relationship. This kind of long distance relationship maybe a bit easier to work with since the two of you are used to the long distance setup and you decided to continue on dating in spite of it.

Communicate Regularly
This already shows your commitment not just to each other but to your relationship as well. Given that in these modern times there are so many ways for the two of you to be able to communicate – through the chatting, texting, phone calls, e-mails, snail mail etc. there is absolutely no way for the two of you not to remain close.

Keep Things Interesting
Keep your relationship fresh by surprising each other every now and then, maybe send your girlfriend a special gift for Valentine’s Day or surprise your boyfriend with a naughty text one night. This will keep the two of you longing for the day that you will be able to see each other again.

Be Mature
As for the second kind of long distance relationship, this is when one of you suddenly has to move away, say for work. This can prove to be a big challenge especially if the two of you are so used to being with each other 24/7. However, a lot of relationships are able to overcome this kind of relationship hurdle by learning to be more mature about the situation.

Sure the two of you are not able to go on that many dates anymore but so what? As long as the two of you make the time to always be there for each other in spite of the distance, and the two of you won’t let temptations ruin your relationship then you will be safe.

Become Exclusive With Your Online Partner
For online dating: the internet certainly does come handy for a lot of things – including finding someone to date. And if you are lucky to have found someone that you are really interested in and that you feel a genuine connection to then try to take your online dating relationship to a higher level by keeping things exclusive.

Now that you have decided to make that commitment, do find the means to be able to see each other first so that your relationship won’t be totally limited to the internet. Once the of you feel that you do have a rapport even without the internet as your safety blanket then you can start dating for real and establish a healthier relationship.

Meet In Person Regularly
If the two of you live far away from each other then just schedule meet ups every few months but make sure to keep your communication lines always open and be honest with each other to keep your relationship solid.

Consider Psychic Insight
You may be wondering, will this last? Is he right for me? To gain valuable insight into your long distance relationship and its chances for future success, consider a Phone Psychic Reading with an intuitive counselor or ‘Love Psychic” Reader, who will try to help stop you from making mistakes, and give you insight into the future of this long distance relationship.

By Guest Contributor

Learning how to get back with an ex is not very hard; you can find tips and advice all over the internet. What can be hard is learning the things that you should avoid when trying to get back with an ex. The reason why learning what you want to avoid is so hard, is because most of the tips and advice that you see online are things that you should be avoiding when learning how to get back with an ex.

1. Apologize – If You Were At Fault
Getting back with an ex is more than just apologizing, it is about being sincerely apologetic about what has happened and trying to make things right. Most articles online will tell you that the first thing that you need to do is apologize to your ex. This is true, you do want to apologize, but what you want to do is avoid apologizing without meaning it. Your ex already knows everything about you, so they will know if you are being sincere or not when you apologize.

When you do apologize to your ex, something else that you want to avoid doing is making promises to your ex that you cannot keep. All too often, when you apologize to your ex you tell them that you will not do something again or that you will work harder to prevent things from building up. Making false promises needs to be avoided because your ex has heard it all before. If you make promises that you can’t keep the relationship is not going to work any better the second time than it did the first. Instead, what you want to do is talk to your ex about what they expect from you in regards to certain situations, if they cannot live with your faults the relationship will not work because every relationship is about compromise.

2. Give Them Some Space
In learning how to get back with an ex, you will hear all sorts of things about calling them and giving them space. If you want to get back with an ex you will need to talk to them at some point, but you still want to give them some space. A good rule of them to consider is to give them some space for the first few weeks following the break up, after that try contacting them to see if they are willing to talk. When you first attempt to contact them do not call them constantly or email them repeatedly. If they don’t answer, simply leave them a message and wait for them to respond back to you. Giving them too much attention makes things worse, and it makes you appear desperate.

After you have broken up you are going to be depressed and perhaps a bit melancholy. The one thing that you want to avoid is having that take over your life. Sure, it is upsetting that you went through a break up, but you still have to get on with your life. Getting on with your life you can become more confident and attractive, which can help to win them back.

3. Consider a ‘Love Psychic’
Talking to a Love Psychic on the Phone is quick and easy, allowing you valuable insight into the future of your relationship. Knowing what lies ahead allows you to make the right decisions about your relationship and Ex. You need but one hour to spend with a Phone Psychic Reader to get the relationship help that you really need. If you’re a woman and you need relationship advice, you have to make sure that you get it only from the best source – by calling only a quality Psychic Reader for help in getting back your Ex.

By Marnia Robinson

Marnia is the author of ‘Cupids Poisoned Arrow: From habit to Harmony in Sexual Relationships’

Want to use your relationship to de-stress? Try something playful and totally unfamiliar: three weeks of brief, daily bonding behaviors.

Humans are pair bonders. That means an ancient region of our brain is wired slightly differently from the 97 percent of mammal species who don’t pair bond. We’re built to register regular, affectionate touch and close, trusted companionship with a mate as especially soothing and rewarding. (If you’re single, you can get a lot of the same benefits from friendly interaction with your pals. Remember the hugs!)

If you have a mate, let mutual affection ease your stress. For example, research shows that cohabiting couples who first engaged in hugging and handholding had lower heart rates and blood pressure when subsequently facing intense stress (spontaneous speaking before an audience).

Often couples make climax the primary goal of their intimacy, in part because it feels like orgasm is a stress-reducer. It’s true that it briefly lowers sexual tension. What’s really happening, though, is that dopamine, the “gotta get it” neurochemical, rises during arousal and then drops at climax, offering fleeting relief.

Orgasm reduces cravings, but not necessarily stress. Warm affection, however, measurably reduces stress. Social support, such as smiling at each other or offering a reassuring hug, reduces the prime stress neurochemical: cortisol . In contrast, lab tests show virtually no drop in cortisol after climax. The difference probably comes down to the “cuddle chemical,” oxytocin. Couples who exchanged more warm touch showed rises in oxytocin and greater improvements in multiple stress-sensitive body systems. The husbands, for example, had significantly lowered blood pressure.

Daily affection with a trusted mate can also improve your outlook. How? Oxytocin turns down defensiveness and fear in your brain’s primitive amygdala. Bingo! Your mate looks better and more loving–at least to you.

In short, your relationship is a goldmine of anti-stress “meds”–if you know how to work it. So, even if you don’t have time or energy for sex, make sure you exchange daily affection!

What are these behaviors that de-stress couples? It looks like they’re the same ones that strengthen their emotional bonds. Talk about convenient…

They’re surprisingly powerful–yet far more effortless than vigorous lovemaking. Evolutionarily, these “bonding behaviors” are closely related to the cues that bond mammal infants with their caregivers before weaning. In couples they look different, of course. And the good news is that we adult pair bonders can use them to sustain bonds for life.

The key point is that all mammals are deeply wired to respond to these signals, whether male or female. Our sensitivity to them evolved long before language or logic, so these signals bypass our rational brains and operate subconsciously.

Bonding behaviors rely on actions to work–and quantity matters. For example, dads who have lots of contact with their kids during a play session produce more soothing oxytocin than those who have little contact. This suggests that couples, too, benefit from frequent affectionate touch. Loving each other isn’t enough. Nor will occasional passionate sex do the trick.

Typical bonding behaviors between couples include skin-to-skin contact, gazing into each other’s eyes, wordless sounds of pleasure and contentment (“mmmmm….”), occasional gentle intercourse (orgasm optional), warm hugs, providing a treat or favor, gentle stroking, synchronized breathing, kissing and so forth.

Want to experiment with using a few weeks of daily affection to de-stress? Try this collection of playful activities for couples, all of which incorporate bonding behaviors. Most take just a few minutes, but can be extended if desired. Here’s a sample:

Have your partner lie face down on the bed and gently relax your partner by stroking up the spine from the sacrum to the neck for several minutes. Switch roles.

Keep in mind that bonding behaviors are not foreplay. Foreplay increases sexual tension. Bonding behaviors work because they help relax the brain. So do them just for their own sake, purely to de-stress. See what you experience. Again, to gain their full benefit, do them daily (or almost daily), even if only for a few minutes.

Bonding behaviors can be great news if you have been over-stimulating yourselves with particularly exciting foreplay techniques or viewing today’s extreme porn. Paradoxically, too much of a good thing can temporarily dampen the pleasure response of the brain. A few weeks of bonding behaviors help return the brain to its natural sensitivity and simple pleasures once again become fulfilling. It’s then easier for you and your partner to make each other purr with contentment.

Why not find out how enjoyable and relaxed life can be after a few short weeks of generous, affectionate exchanges?

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Celebrity Sex Psychic Belinda Bentley talks sex with Dave Navarro on his new show. Belinda is renowned as a Psychic to the stars, with a focus mostly on sex and love related issues; she claims to be the only “Sex Psychic”.

From her website, they write:

Belinda Bentley is now a Celebrity Psychic being featured in all aspects of media worldwide, including Star Magazine, Diva Magazine, Darkness Radio with Dave Schrader, Playboy radio,VH1, E! and her own radio show? Disturbed Paranormal? with co – host, Hale S. Mednik. Although most celebrity clientele is kept confidential, Belinda has worked with Dave Navarro on Spread TV and has been named his “In House Psychic.” She has also been linked to other Hollywood celebrities!

By Guest Contributor

When eager to manifest new relationships (and this is always necessary at some point in our lives) we must be ready to accept change and respect newness. Whether in our personal world or our business world, we often feel the need to develop new relationships.

Attract new relationships
Instead of trying to find new people, develop the capacity to attract them. Having said that, necessary actions must be taken in order to open you to being in the right place at the right time. This could mean attending networking events or social and organizational events in your geographical area. It may mean that you simply pay attention to those people you chance to meet in your day-to-day affairs.

Open your heart center
By continually remembering to keep your heart center activated, you will begin to receive signs from those you are attracting. Your heart center has ‘psychic receptor sites’ so that you will know when you are meeting like-minded persons. This is not something new. You have always had the ability to receive the feeling of warmth, belongingness and satisfaction when you are with certain people. Follow through with your feelings and you will begin manifesting new relationships. Your body gives clues: you may feel comfortable, exhilarated, inspired, feelings of oneness as well as other feelings that have been activated between you and your potential new relationship.

Some relationships will be enduring and others will be for just a short time. When you pay close attention, even the new short-lived relationships will often bring you something you need in the way of information, inspiration, to fulfill karmic experiences or to have other types of experiences that your soul wants you to have.

Be the person you want to attract
In order to attract attractive people, you must be attractive. To attract powerful people, you must be powerful. To attract committed people, you must be committed. What you are becoming, you will attract, so it makes good sense to involve yourself in some personal development activities. Personal development activities can include many things but highly recommended is the ability and discipline to pray and/or meditate on a regular basis. Getting to know your soul – the highest aspect of yourself – brings to the fore all of your good and divine qualities. These qualities are the stuff that attracts new relationships with people who have good and divine qualities. When two persons meet and both have good and divine qualities, magic can happen – on a personal level, a business level or community level, for the greatest good of all.

What is your inner posture?
On a practical level, when meeting someone new, be aware of your inner posture as well as your outer posture. Your voice will reveal to the other person your level of respect, your interest in them by the way you listen to them and your level of oneness and acceptance of them just as they are today.

When in a networking situation and connecting with a person, focus on how you can help them. Make sure you are listening intently to them when you are face to face. Learn how to ask good questions. Before departing, get their e-mail address or other contact information. Electronic communication is less invasive and quicker than a phone call; however, phone calls are appropriate under many circumstances. Send them additional contacts, a website, a tip, a telephone number or anything that you connected with initially. Cast away any fears of actually connecting with that person again – the sooner the better.

Experiment. Write down on paper the qualities that you want in your new relationship – one relationship at a time. Look at that paper daily and visualize your new relationship walking toward you while you are feeling the feelings you want to feel in that relationship. Continue doing this daily until someone happens to show up in your life. At that time, you know you are manifesting new relationships – all by your own design and powers of attracting that which you seek.

8 great tried and true tips to help you find a man that has long-term potential. I have listened to hundreds of women talk about their dating experiences and horrors. When you’ve heard that many, you can see patterns. One mistake many women make is to give the guy too many second chances. Any guy who’s mature enough to be dating, and emotionally available for a relationship (not just a booty call) should have certain things mastered. There are no excuses, and no exceptions.

Build up enough bad experiences and it can sour you. Who needs it? In neuro-science, they talk about “what fires together wires together.” This is about brain science. If you have 3 relationships where it goes bad, those wires tend to get hooked together, and it means more will come. So take care of yourself. Wire up good experiences!
HERE ARE SOME THINGS TO WATCH OUT FOR:

1. Not being mature about sex.
The big question is when, and that’s a personal matter. If he doesn’t respect your wishes, he isn’t mature enough to be in a relationship, or isn’t really interested in one. In other words, if it seems like that’s all he’s interested in, that’s all he’s interested in. Make sure you’re reading on the same page about the intimacy if you get involved. You don’t want it to mean something to you, and mean nothing to him. Cut Scorpios a little slack on this one, cuz you know how they are.

2. Ogling other women when with you.
There is simply no excuse for this. It is the poorest of dating etiquette. If he can’t control himself to avoid this (I don’t care if “that’s the way men are”), he doesn’t have what it takes to have a relationship. Aquarian males are bad about this, but they can learn.

3. He doesn’t seal the deal.
If he is taken with you on the first date, he should ask you for another date right away. He should certainly give you evidence that he enjoyed it – a txt msg or phone message the next day. If he waits too much longer, he isn’t that interested and he’s just calling you because he’s found time on his hands, and doesn’t know what else to do with himself, or he’s ambivalent. What we’re looking for here is honest enthusiasm. Give your Pisces sweetie a little bit longer.

4. Excessive flattery regarding your looks.
It’s nice to hear you’re beautiful or gorgeous or sexy. Once. Maybe twice. More than that and he’s either that shallow, or he’s saying what has worked for him in the past to seduce women. He should move rapidly to talking about inner qualities, interesting movies, the scenery, or something of interest. Complimenting you on other qualities is nice, too – like how organized you are, or how well you’ve thought something through. You aren’t just your body and you need to be getting evidence that he knows this. Otherwise, send your boobs to dinner and you stay home. If he’s a Leo male, he can do it 3 times. Ok, 4. (It’s what they do because they love it so much themselves. Make a note of that.)

5. He’s not a good conversationalist.
Marriage, I always say, turns out to be an 8-hour car ride with no radio. Hardly likely these days, but you get my point. This includes showing a sense of humor. Conversations need to be guided, and he should be able to do this as well as you can. They should also be give-and-take, with true interest in what the other person is saying. He should not talk AT you or deliver a lecture. This shows ego-centrism, lack of social skills, or both. It won’t get any better. Cut your Taurus bull a little slack on this one. They tend to be quiet.

6. He talks about his ex, his broken heart and other traumas.
Stringers are usually ambivalent. They’ve been hurt and the wounds are still running sores. They don’t want a relationship, they just want a woman (any woman) to ease the pain. They don’t really know what they’re doing except for wanting sympathy. If you feel a pull to be his therapist or his mother, or to “fix” him, resist it. If he can’t talk about anything else but his nasty past and heartbreak, don’t mistake it for vulnerability. What he is doing is talking about himself. He is not available and he is also extremely selfish. Geminis, well they talk, and if any sign they can go with one while still a bit attached to the other, but pay attention. It has to be subsiding.

7. He has only one functioning “brain.”
And you know which one I’m talking about! Look for a man who is interested in relating to you both mentally and emotionally, not just physically. If you’re a Scorpio female you may have a little trouble with this one, so keep it in mind.

8. He is too agreeable.
On the other hand, if he agrees with everything you say, he’s trying to get you into bed. Easy is sleazy. Look for a man self-confident enough to have opinions that he shares with you. He doesn’t clobber you with them, or act like they were the gospel truth and you should be taking notes while he tells you. This applies too, to setting up the next date. If he says, “Whatever you want to do,” uh oh. He needs to be able to orchestrate this, make the plans and carry it out. If not, there’s something wrong with him. And be sure and ‘get this’ if you’ve been married. Yes, in a marriage, the wife does all this. Don’t act like a wife until you ARE one. If he’s just out of a marriage and still in that mindset, he isn’t ready to date. This is a key point. He has to show you he’s standing squarely on his own two feet, and willing and able to do the work of dating (i.e., a relationship). If your last bad love affair was with a fixed sign (Scorpio, Leo, Aquarius or Taurus) that wasn’t too evolved and you were rubbed raw by that domineering personality-thing, you may find this appealing. Don’t.

The thing I want you to avoid the most is another bad experience. Compatibility charts can help a lot, and readings periodically, to help you see the things you might be missing. I know it’s hard when when a Virgo has you capture with those beautiful eyes! May all your dates be happy ones.

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By: Guest Contributor

Relationship advice and questions about one’s love life are perhaps the most popular and frequently discussed topics amongst curious individuals and their psychics. However, psychic readings about relationships aren’t just necessarily limited to questions and answers about romantic interests or soul mates, or the lack thereof, but they may also pertain to other types of relationships such as between you and your boss or co workers, family members, or friends.

Ever since we were able to communicate with one another we human beings have interacted with each other on so many different levels and varying degrees of intimacy that we often miss all of the clues or answers to our most pressing questions despite their obviousness. But, psychics are either trained or naturally able to tune into our energy sources on such a deep level of understanding that they pick up on those answers that have evaded the rest of us.

Some people turn to psychic readings for answers to their innermost questions, whether it’s about a new love interest and if they would be a good match or not, or also for times of trouble during their current relationships. It’s no secret that finding true love and maintaining a healthy relationship can be difficult for many of us, so turning to an authentic psychic for a reading can be one way of greatly helping the process along.

Psychic readings can help us tune into the answers we may already actually know but that are clouded behind feelings of self doubt, inadequacies, uncertainty, and all of the other emotions and feelings that tend to get in the way of our happiness. Some people inadvertently sabotage their own relationships by a serious of subconscious actions and patterns.

Thanks to the advent of modern technology, people can now receive relationship advice through psychic readings without ever having to leave their homes, as many psychics are able to operate remotely, or via the telephone or computer. This also allows for readings to be done regardless of where the client or psychic lives and gives people the convenient ability to ask questions and seek advice while getting their answers almost instantly.

Getting a psychic reading online is favourable to some as it allows them to browse through a large number of different psychics, many of which specialise in certain areas, or read testimonials from previous clients.

Before connecting with a psychic, either live in person or electronically, be sure to have at least a good idea as to the type of questions you want to ask as most all will charge by the amount of time spent with you. You may want to create a list of the questions and concerns you have ahead of time in order of importance to keep yourself on track during your session.

Some people are rather surprised when their psychic begins telling them what their relationship troubles are rather than waiting to be asked for their advice about a particular matter. When this happens, you know you’ve found a reliable psychic who is definitely in tune with you. A psychic reading may be the answer you’ve been looking for to provide the peace of mind you need as well as guidance and direction.

By: Kathy Calahan

The month of October finds singles on the look out for love and those in relationships refining an already good thing.

When it comes to love, each astrological sign has plenty to offer. Discover great astrology relationship advice for couples.

ARIES: You’ll likely be the last one outdoors when the cold weather sets in. Neither rain, nor sleet can stop the Aries. Your love life may include more affection than usual and some Aries will be looking at how smart their alliances or dallying choices have been. Lucky Numbers 40, 33, 28, 20, 16, 11

TAURUS: You’ve always been a lover of artful, beautiful things and probably a collector as well. Maybe even in your love life. This month would be a good time to practice body art with your significant other, but if you’re still looking for that someone special, go to art galleries instead. Lucky Numbers 51, 50, 6, 31, 32, 2

GEMINI: Watch your lower back this month. Either work out more at the gym, get better back support while driving & riding or calm down in the sack. A little balance is called for this month in order to support your back. A new hair cut, color or style is also in the works. Lucky Numbers 4, 59, 50, 30, 22, 26

CANCER: As the weather becomes cooler, surprise your lover by redecorating the bedroom this month. That ratty bedspread the family pets have claimed has outlived its usefulness. Use it to change the motor oil in your car. Look for a small, compatible (Aquarius) group gathering this month. Lucky Numbers 12, 31, 33, 42, 55, 39

LEO: New contracts are awaiting your signature this month. It could have something to do with new transportation or buying a home, but it definitely has money surrounding it. Don’t let your hot head ruin your skill for diplomacy. You could charm the skin off a snake. Lucky Numbers 17, 11, 2, 4, 19, 8, 21

VIRGO: Keep your equilibrium now because although the scales of justice may seem lopsided, your legal situation turns out to be a blessing in disguise. And watch the drinking, as you may feel especially sociable this month. Heed this warning and slow down. Lucky Numbers 20, 11, 5, 9, 10, 33

LIBRA: Happy birthday you affectionate lovers. You symbolize the possibilities in partnerships, whether marriage or business. You’d rather work with someone than alone. Watch your lower back this month and see if drinking more water helps correct those backaches. Lucky Numbers 15, 51, 50, 13, 16, 38

SCORPIO: Music so soothes the savage beast. You’ve been through a lot of stress recently and you may feel so tense that not even a long ride in the car will fix it. Instead, jump into Cancer’s new bedding oasis and listen to some soft music. Your muscles relax almost immediately. Lucky Numbers 4, 17, 3, 5, 8 9

SAGITTARIUS: Ever the consummate bachelor and bachelorette, you may find yourself this month seriously considering a Jet Ski ride down the aisle. You offer big love to your relationship but matrimony hasn’t always been as important to you as it is to your sweetie. Say the words, “I love you.” Lucky Numbers 50, 55, 16, 11, 8, 21

CAPRICORN: Your sex life may be a bit slow this month, especially those who are going through hot flashes and mid-life crises. Your need to reproduce finds a new outlet in building things, rather than babies, so get to work! Lucky Numbers 14, 57, 22, 18, 20, 38

AQUARIUS: You’re asking a lot of group political-type questions now, such as, “Who’s going to lead the meetings this month?” Remember, this is a collaborative effort and the decision is not only yours. The same goes for your love relationship – include your sweetie more. Lucky Numbers 14, 15, 27, 28, 31, 4

PISCES: Lots of social gatherings this month, so why don’t you want to go? You can’t stay isolated forever and your friends miss you. Call a truce on your seclusion and get out there. You’ll find that those who are single and looking will benefit from the exposure. Lucky Numbers 17, 29, 8, 4, 12, 31