By Guest Contributor

When eager to manifest new relationships (and this is always necessary at some point in our lives) we must be ready to accept change and respect newness. Whether in our personal world or our business world, we often feel the need to develop new relationships.

Attract new relationships
Instead of trying to find new people, develop the capacity to attract them. Having said that, necessary actions must be taken in order to open you to being in the right place at the right time. This could mean attending networking events or social and organizational events in your geographical area. It may mean that you simply pay attention to those people you chance to meet in your day-to-day affairs.

Open your heart center
By continually remembering to keep your heart center activated, you will begin to receive signs from those you are attracting. Your heart center has ‘psychic receptor sites’ so that you will know when you are meeting like-minded persons. This is not something new. You have always had the ability to receive the feeling of warmth, belongingness and satisfaction when you are with certain people. Follow through with your feelings and you will begin manifesting new relationships. Your body gives clues: you may feel comfortable, exhilarated, inspired, feelings of oneness as well as other feelings that have been activated between you and your potential new relationship.

Some relationships will be enduring and others will be for just a short time. When you pay close attention, even the new short-lived relationships will often bring you something you need in the way of information, inspiration, to fulfill karmic experiences or to have other types of experiences that your soul wants you to have.

Be the person you want to attract
In order to attract attractive people, you must be attractive. To attract powerful people, you must be powerful. To attract committed people, you must be committed. What you are becoming, you will attract, so it makes good sense to involve yourself in some personal development activities. Personal development activities can include many things but highly recommended is the ability and discipline to pray and/or meditate on a regular basis. Getting to know your soul – the highest aspect of yourself – brings to the fore all of your good and divine qualities. These qualities are the stuff that attracts new relationships with people who have good and divine qualities. When two persons meet and both have good and divine qualities, magic can happen – on a personal level, a business level or community level, for the greatest good of all.

What is your inner posture?
On a practical level, when meeting someone new, be aware of your inner posture as well as your outer posture. Your voice will reveal to the other person your level of respect, your interest in them by the way you listen to them and your level of oneness and acceptance of them just as they are today.

When in a networking situation and connecting with a person, focus on how you can help them. Make sure you are listening intently to them when you are face to face. Learn how to ask good questions. Before departing, get their e-mail address or other contact information. Electronic communication is less invasive and quicker than a phone call; however, phone calls are appropriate under many circumstances. Send them additional contacts, a website, a tip, a telephone number or anything that you connected with initially. Cast away any fears of actually connecting with that person again – the sooner the better.

Experiment. Write down on paper the qualities that you want in your new relationship – one relationship at a time. Look at that paper daily and visualize your new relationship walking toward you while you are feeling the feelings you want to feel in that relationship. Continue doing this daily until someone happens to show up in your life. At that time, you know you are manifesting new relationships – all by your own design and powers of attracting that which you seek.

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