How Can You Make A Woman Fall In Love With You? In this episode of Dan & Jennifer they give you some great tips on how to win love from a woman.

Whats the best way to make a woman fall in love with you? Here are Dan & Jennifer’s tips:

• Slow and Steady, don’t hit on a girl too strongly, take your time
• If your inexperienced, practice talking to people and girls first
• Get to know her and let her get to know you, do you have things in common
• If she doesn’t like you then don’t try to force your love on her
• Invest in yourself and like yourself to become more attractive

With these easy to follow steps you can win a womans – even if you thought you never could!

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If you find yourself in a dead-end relationship and want out but need some help, here are 3 easy ways that you can breakup with your boyfriend.

Understand that the truth is there really isn’t a great way to say “Good-bye” to someone who loves you and who doesn’t want things to end. Always put yourself in their shoes and think about how you would want to be treated.

One of the best ways to end a relationship is to keep it short and sweet. Put your cards on the table in an honest and respectful way and DO NOT keep then hanging on. Not only is it unfair, you wouldn’t want someone to do that to you. If it?s over, it?s over. It?s never just kind of over.

THE CLEAN BREAK

The clean break is one of the best ways to breakup with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Your partner may protest, ?Let’s at least be friends,? but the truth is that it will hurt them more to continue to be around you knowing that you don’t want to be with them than it would if you simply cut the ties.

Plus, it keeps them holding onto the hope that maybe, just maybe things might work out.

I think being friends is a good idea, ONLY after they have gotten over you and when they are capable of being JUST your friend.

The toughest part of ending your relationship is sticking to your guns; say what you mean and mean what you say. And?spare yourself and them from going through the on again off again routine. You know that this person is hurting and you may have a tendency to want to give in so they don’t hurt so much.

The real problems begin if they resist letting go and they keep calling and texting. You can keep talking and texting back, but in the end the outcome will be the same. It will eventually still be over, just a little later than planned.

Since there are so many different ways to end a relationship, you do have some options. But remember, do your best, be honest and treat people how you would like to be treated if the shoe were on the other foot.

HOLDING THEIR HAND

When thinking of the different ways to breakup with your boyfriend or girlfriend the “holding their hand” method only seems to keep YOU stuck longer, but, this is the ultimate in being nice, and it wastes everyones time. And, it prolongs the inevitable.

Don’t forget, these 3 methods are based on the fact that you simply don’t feel the same for them anymore. They are really nice people but you’ve decided to move on and you are simply looking for the best ways to break up with them.

We ARE NOT talking about ways to breakup with the kind of boyfriends or girlfriends who don’t deserve to be with you. The kind who aren’t respectful and who SHOULD be broken up with, that is a whole other talk show.

Anyway, you hold their hand because you feel sorry for them and don’t want to cause them anymore pain than you feel you already have. The reality is that no matter how you slice it, it’s going to hurt them.

I see this method of one of the ways to breakup with your boyfriend or girlfriend most often with younger people. They just don’t want to be the mean person that goes along with hurting someone, so they suck it up and hold their ex’s hand until they can walk again.

The problem I see with this is even though you are broken up you are still having a “sort-of” relationship with them. It’s nice to be nice, but eventually they have to accept that fact that it is over and move on.

The irony of it is, after you hold their hand, it typically turns into a clean break in the end anyway.

LEAN AND MEAN

When thinking about the ways to breakup with your boyfriend or girlfriend you have to consider the kind of person you are involved with. If you have a hanger-on, or one who simply won’t take no for an answer, it’s time to draw the line.

It’s unfortunate but sometimes one of the ways to breakup with your boyfriend or girlfriend is that you have to be hard and not allow someone to abuse your kindness and mistake it for weakness.

There are types who will want you to pity them and they’ll be the victim just so they can keep you around. Even if the conversations are about why, how could you, please don’t leave etc. at least they have your attention.

Some will tell you how mean you are and how they can’t believe you can be so cold. They will try everything they can to put you on a guilt trip in hopes that you will wake up and see the light.

The bottom line is you don’t even have to look for ways to breakup with your boyfriend or girlfriend. If you don’t want to be with them, the sooner you make this crystal clear, the sooner you will both be getting on with your lives.

Sometimes being nice allows them to take advantage of you. Being firm, honest and letting them know that no matter what they say, you aren’t going to change your mind is going to help them accept it sooner rather than later.

Let them know that you aren’t happy about hurting them and it doesn’t make you feel good but it is something that has to be done and that is why you are having this last conversation with them about it.

Be strong and don’t give in, it’s not easy to hurt someones feelings but what is the alternative? Stay with them so you don’t hurt them? No.

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By Guest Contributor

You have broken up with your ex, but you are lonely and want them back – now what? Here are some great tips that you can use which do not involve all of the head games that most advice entails.

If your ex has a birthday, call them on this day or any other important day in their lives.
Its okay to send a card or a small gift, nothing too bold or emotional, just something small to let your ex know you are thinking about them.

Another step you can take is try to keep your friendship alive.
Keep in touch with an email. If you hear about a news story if you receive a funny video or email, pass it along with a short note, just make sure you add your ex to an email list of all your other friends that you send those types of emails onto. Make sure you do not just single them out alone in the email and they realize they are a part of a larger list that you included them in. It will keep them from feeling as if you are playing games or trying too hard if they see they are only “one” of many you sent the email to.

Should you date other people?
One of the most important issues you need to figure out for yourself is whether or not you want to start dating other people during this period of time when you are trying to win your ex back. If you are really serious about your ex and you really do want to win them back, I suggest you do not date anyone else. Firstly, it complicates things and may send the wrong signal if your ex finds our about another relationship during this time. If you are really serious and really want to win your ex back, stay committed to them and the relationship. I know you are no longer together and you are free to see and sleep with whomever you want. I also realize that many other dating advice sites will tell you just the opposite, to date and sleep with other people in hopes that your ex will find out and become jealous. But this is game playing and it also is not fair for the other party in which you choose to hurt along the way. It is never a good idea to sleep with another individual with the intent on doing so to hurt your ex.

Don’t be jealous of your ex and their dating life.
You know if you do see your ex with another and find out they are dating, don’t be jealous, especially if they were the one who called off your relationship in the first place. Its not cheating and you can use this to your advantage if you can learn some of the aspects of the person your ex is with, for instance it can give you a good guideline as to what your ex is looking for in a relationship, what type of person they are dating. You know if your ex broke it off with you because you became to complacent in your relationship and you see them with someone who is attractive, takes good care of their appearance or is showing allot of attention to them, sweeping them off their feet so to speak, and you were a beer and football kind of guy, or you wore sweats and t-shirts around the house all the time, you will have a really great indication of what you need to change in order to win your ex back.

Take a step back and gain a new perspective.
When you take a few steps back and are able to look at your ex and your relationship without the anger or the rose colored glasses on, you will be able to better analyze and study your ex and see what it is they really need in a relationship. Once you get to the point where your emotions are more “neutral” and your feelings are not so much in play, you can read into the things your ex says and do not say and will be able to look at their emotions and actions much better.

Keep in mind that you need to keep your deck of cards close to your chest.
In order to maintain the power you must keep your emotions in check and not spill the beans. When you continue to speak to your ex and constantly tell them your deepest emotions, you lost your power and have given it to your ex. In order to win your ex back you must preserve your own power of your emotions this is vital in order to win them back. The more needy you are, the more you profess your love for them, the more you give them the ability to call the shots and also leave yourself open to be rejected once again and hurt.

During your breakup, stay busy… busy… busy…
Always give the illusion that you are busy..its attractive to the opposite sex for some reason. Also, work on you….make sure you go to the gym, work out the hurt, the frustration the emotions on a tread mill or bar bells, not only will you feel better but the more you work on you the better you will feel about yourself and your self image will improve. Splurge on a good hair cut, get a “new you” style. Don’t forget to work on your mind, learn something new, take a new class at the college or a local high school, by spending time working on yourself, your image and your mind the more attractive you will be to your ex.

In closing, you can play games, you can play hard to get and all the other type of mind games out there to win your ex back or you can work on yourself, learn from this experience try to fix the only things you have control over fixing which is you. Try to work on the things that went wrong in this relationship and reach out to professionals such as Psychic Intuitive counselors who can help you grow from the experience.

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By Guest Contributor

If you had an affair, ended it, and your partner knows about it, what now? You want to move on with your life and stay married to your partner, but they are not so quick to forget and forgive you for the affair, what should you do?

This is a common situation seen in marriage counseling practice. The partner who had the affair wants to forget and move on, but the offended partner is still mired in dealing with the pain and breaking of trust.

Rebuilding your marriage will not happen overnight, but here are 6 ways that you can help salvage your marriage.

1. Start by rebuilding trust

After an affair, your partner will justifiably doubt anything you say. You’re going to have to work to earn back your partner’s respect and trust, one fragile piece at a time. And it’s your partner, not you, who will determine the trust timetable and whether they can ever trust you again. You also must accept the fact that your partner’s trust may never be 100 percent complete. However, just because you’ve betrayed your partner doesn’t necessarily mean the marriage is over or can’t be saved. If there’s love and commitment between you, there’s reason to believe that the relationship can be rebuilt. We see it happen in our practice every day.

2. Accept responsibility for your past behavior

You’re the one who decided to have the affair. Don’t blame it on drunkenness, on problems in your marriage, on your affair partner, or on any other external circumstances. Don’t try to dismiss your behavior, and don’t try to minimize the impact on your relationship. Accept the fact that you made hurtful decisions, and hope that your partner can forgive you and move on. If you don’t accept personal responsibility, and try to blame the affair on external circumstances, you won’t discover what you need to learn or change. Otherwise, you’re signaling to your partner that an affair could happen again.

3. Commit to open, honest and patient communication

Accept the fact that your partner is going to have difficulty understanding why you put your relationship in jeopardy. Partners want answers to questions that are often uncomfortable. But you must answer their questions patiently and honestly, regardless of how uncomfortable they make you feel. Just accept this as part of the process your partner needs to go through to move toward rebuilding. Don’t become defensive, dismissive or evasive with answers to your partners’ questions. Your partner needs to know that you’re willing to answer questions openly and honestly. Your openness builds trust while defensiveness corrodes trust.

4. Use this experience to grow emotionally

This is a good time to critically evaluate the emotions and thinking that led to your infidelity. Try to identify any problems or unhappiness prior to starting the affair. It’s a time for self-assessment, not just marriage assessment. Was the affair an attempt to “cure” these feelings or avoid them? Did you put too much blame on your marriage for your unhappiness? How are you going to address these problems in a healthy way? These areas will need to be examined before your marriage can move forward. If you skip this step in the healing process, your marriage will be in peril.

5. Healing takes time

You’d like this to be over as quickly as possible, but your partner is going to need time to work through the healing process. When emotional trust is broken in a relationship, it’s not much different from a physical injury. If you were to break your leg, you wouldn’t be out jogging the next day. The leg needs time to heal. Well, the same holds true for an emotional fracture. It may take considerably longer to heal than a physical injury, but given enough time and the correct treatment, chances of a healthy recovery are significantly improved.

6. Seek professional help

You may want to seek advice from a therapist who specializes in marriage and couples counseling to help you work through some of these issues. When couples are in crisis after an affair, it is very difficult to navigate through the emotional turmoil, confusion and loss of hope. It helps to have an experienced counselor help you to work through the complicated issues on the way to recovery.

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Bravo’s Millionaire Matchmaker is used to helping out adults looking for love, but see what she has to say specifically for teen romantics out there.

How do you get a guy to like you?

Patty says in the video that you need to get a guy to notice you; you can do this by being his friend, talking to him, etc – but don’t be his therapist.

What if your too shy to get a guys attention?

Patty explains in the video that to get the guys attention with a five minute flirt, and do it a few times.

Advice for Love vs Friendship?

Patty says – keep it separate.

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Recently actress Kristen Stewart of “Twilight” fame gave a handful of her best relationship tips to reporters.

As reported by winnipegfreepress.com, Kristen Stewart believes not being an “asshole” is the key to a good relationship.

The 21-year-old actress has been dating her ‘Twilight Saga’ co-star Robert Pattinson – who plays Edward Cullen, the vampire love of her character Bella Swan – since 2009 and Kristen says being honest and refusing to “take s**t” is the only way to maintain a successful love affair.

She said: “Hmm…good relationship advice for me tends to be being honest and knowing yourself. Don’t be an asshole. That’s my advice. Don’t be mean. Don’t take s**t. Don’t settle.”

In summary, Kristen Stewart’s 5 relationship tips that you just may want to pay attention to.

Tip 1: Don’t Be An Asshole

Tip 2: Be Honest

Tip 3: Know Yourself

Tip 4: Don’t Take Shit

Tip 5: Don’t Settle

Oddly enough, these relationship Tips by Stewart come after several news outlets reporting that Stewart met with Kate Moss of all people for relationship advice!

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By Guest Contributor

Anyone who has been in a long term relationship knows that it is no picnic, but what many people often don’t understand is the difference between couples who stay together and those that breakup is a willingness to “work” at their relationship and work through difficulties.

It’s been said time and time again — communication, openness, and sharing your feelings is crucial in marriage. After all, if your spouse doesn’t know what’s bothering you, how can you expect them to understand and work with you to arrive at a compromise? Couples counseling can be very beneficial in helping couples learn how to speak and listen to each other more effectively.

4 Reasons Why Couples Seek Counseling:

1. Disagreements Over Money

One of you may be a compulsive shopper who can’t resist new shoes or the latest electronic gadget, while the other may only shell out cash for food, bills, and other necessities. These conflicting views on money can lead to frequent disagreements. The economic downturn and rising fears of unemployment have added to many couples’ financial stresses.

Couples counseling can help people get to the root of their money problems. Therapists can help couples find out the underlying reason behind someone’s excessive spending or hording money, work through any trust issues behind a reluctance to set up a joint account, and deal with emotional issues related to losing a job.

2. Cheating Partner

Frequent fighting or general unhappiness in a relationship can cause one or both partners to have an affair. When the affair is discovered, the betrayed spouse wonders how to go on in the relationship, and if they will ever be able to trust their partner again.

With professional help, partners will be able to come together in neutral territory to discuss the circumstances that lead to the infidelity. Finding out the fundamental cause for the affair can go a long way toward mending that mistake and rebuilding trust in each other.

3. Lack Of Romance Or Sex

As the years go by, long work hours, kids, and even weight gain can lead to less romance and sex. One or both partners may begin to feel neglected, which often leads to them drawing away from their spouse and wondering why their sex life isn’t what it used to be. But this reluctance to talk about the issue needs to be replaced by having a discussion about it.

Here’s another place where communication is essential. Even with your spouse, sex may be awkward to talk about, especially if the conversation is about a lack of sex. But sex and romance is a vital part of marriage and are worth discussing in hopes of regaining that intimacy. Many couples go through dry spells, and it’s perfectly normal. Through couples counseling, partners can explore the issues behind their lack of intimacy and work on a plan to regain that spark.

4. Disagreements Over Raising Children or Having Children

To put it bluntly, kids are stressful. And not just raising them, but all the stuff that comes before they’re even born: deciding to have them, how many, possibly experiencing infertility, talking about how to discipline them… and then once they’re born, the 3 AM feedings, financial strain of raising them, and everyday stresses that kids bring to the table like loudness, getting into trouble… the list is endless.

These important decisions and stressful situations can test even the strongest relationship. Couples counseling can help couples work together to make these nerve-racking choices, and address psychological issues that may stem from one or both partner’s childhood that are affecting the decision of having or raising children.

There are many reasons why couples end up in couples counseling. But a couple that’s willing to participate in couples counseling has a better chance of surviving than a couple that neglects their issues in hopes of resolving them on their own or walking away completely.

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By Guest Contributor

I’m asked all the time, “How can I prevent an affair?” The answer lies in the question. It’s the power of the law of attraction…the secret. If you ask the question in such a negative way, you’ve already lost confidence in your relationship. You’ve already given up on stoking the fire.

The answer is to identify threats in your relationship, and to ask yourself what you can do to stop the threats from taking over. There can be endless threats to any relationship, but I think some are more important than others.

Tip 1: Manage Selfishness

Some selfishness can be good. But it can become a problem when you force your spouse to do something for you and threaten punishment if they refuse. This can cause a great deal of unhappiness and create animosity between the two of you.

Evaluate whether or not you have caused mental pain to your spouse by being demanding. What kinds of things have you done, and how do you do it?

Tip 2: Respect Your Spouse’s Opinion

Your spouse is entitled to make judgments of his or her own. Your opinion is not superior to anyone’s and should not be communicated as such. Showing a sincere interest in your spouse’s value’s can greatly enhance your relationship.

By listening to your spouse, you can actually learn from each other and enjoy stimulating conversation amongst one another.

Tip 3: Respond verse React

Often times, we find ourselves reacting to situations. Reacting is a negative behavior, which we learn from a young age. We need to train ourselves to respond to behaviors and actions. Responding is a more sensitive and calming way to deal with problems. It harbors healing.

If you come home and disagree with your partner by yelling and screaming, you are reacting to a situation irrationally. If you are able to talk out your problems and communicate your feelings, you are responding, and your partner will value that about you.

Tip 4: Honesty

Being honest is important in every relationship. Dishonesty provides false information, but more importantly, represents false impressions about what you truly feel, think, like and dislike. If you are dishonest, you are not allowing yourself to connect emotionally with your spouse.

There is nothing to be afraid of. You should be able to be honest with your spouse. It’s better to be honest and have a disagreement than to lie about who you are as a person. When your spouse finds out you are lying, it will also create insecurity on their part, and they may never be able to trust you again.

Tip 5: Spousal Bonding

Whenever possible, you should be sharing yourself with your spouse. Whether it’s a trip to the grocery store or a night on the town, you should be spending time with your spouse. Acting independently without consulting your spouse is a sign of disrespect.

It’s not that you need permission or you can’t be trusted, but sharing activities with your spouse shows that you care, and lets them know you would rather be with them than anyone else.

There are obviously other ways to help prevent an affair, but as you’ve just read, most have to do with core values in your relationship. You need to trust your spouse, communicate with them, spend time with them, and be honest with them in order to achieve marital bliss. Work on these five tips and your flame will burn for much longer!

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In this video segment Dan and Jenn answer the question of a viewer who’s girlfriend is pregnant but not by him – should he stay with her and support her?

Watch this great video on relationship advice from Dan and Jenn to see what there suggestions are for this complex love triangle!

In this video, Dan and Jenn give the following relationship advice:

• Be honest with yourself, what do you want?
• Ignore what your friends think and follow your gut
• Whatever you decide be delicate, but honest with her
• If you decide to stay, take it 1 day at a time

What do you think, should he stay or should he go? Be sure to leave a comment.

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By Guest Contributor

Everyone knows that men are not perfect, they can be known as narrow minded, stubborn, and insecure – and from there it stems into a downward spiral of dysfunction within the relationship. This is why most men fail in their relationships with women – but it doesn’t have to be that way.

Men are not totally at fault here – women are not much better either. However, some women are better at conflict resolution. It doesn’t matter who’s more to blame, we can all benefit from enhancing our communication skills.

Listening, is a wonderful way to start. You’d be surprised how many people don’t know how to do this. Listening is not difficult, however it does require patience – something most men don’t have much of for very long.

You must be able to concentrate on what your partner is saying. The best way to do this is by focusing on body language. Being patient also helps because it shows you are willing to put forth the effort to understand. Having humility and not getting upset while your partner speaks their mind is another wonderful virtue. You must forget about always being right and be willing to let the other person have the last word.

Time also plays a factor. You have to actually take the time to work things out and communicate. You make time for everything else in your life, so why not take the time to make a relationship work. Make an effort for ‘alone time’, and talk about things that are going on in your life. It boils down to making sure you understand what the other
person wants and needs.

Doing things together is another good way to talk about what you’re not happy with in the relationship. You must truly want to see things change for the better. Making the time and doing things together is a combined effort. Pay attention to non-verbal communication as well. You should always know when your partner is upset with something. If you don’t realize this, then you don’t care.

In addition to these points, here are 9 surefire tips for improving communication with your partner.

9 Tips to improve communication with your partner:

• Be empathetic towards your partners feelings.
• Ask questions.
• Don’t stereotype.
• Don’t assume things.
• Focus on what your partner is trying to say.
• Don’t jump to conclusions.
• Read body language.
• Focus on the issue not the person.
• Be genuine and flexible.
• Present yourself as an equal rather than a superior.

So there you have it, 9 Tips On How Men Can Succeed In Relationships – if every men had these tips in mind, many more men would succeed in a lasting love with their partner.

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